{"id":17,"date":"2014-03-07T20:00:06","date_gmt":"2014-03-07T20:00:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.thoughts.diysarah.com\/?p=17"},"modified":"2014-03-07T20:00:06","modified_gmt":"2014-03-07T20:00:06","slug":"what-to-wear-as-a-female-engineer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thoughts.diysarah.com\/?p=17","title":{"rendered":"What to Wear as a Female Engineer"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have recently accepted a job at MIT Lincoln Laboratory in Lexington MA. \u00a0I am going to be a System Integration and Test Engineer in a large department that consists mainly of men, mainly of contractors rather than direct hires, and mainly of senior engineers.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m on a mission to re-invigorate my wardrobe but it&#8217;s hard to figure out just where I should fall on the business casual spectrum. \u00a0Lincoln Lab is a bit more conservative than most engineering firms, even for the East coast but it is still not a dress-pants kind of place. \u00a0My husband is at Lincoln Labs and he wears Kahkis and a button-down every day and is the most well-dressed in his group.<\/p>\n<p>I am doing a little thought experiment and have come up with a set of 4 questions to help me figure out exactly what I should be wearing.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Who am I trying to influence with my clothing choices?<\/li>\n<li>What response do I want from each of those groups?<\/li>\n<li>What should I avoid to get a negative response from each of those groups?<\/li>\n<li>What would satisfy each of those groups?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Lets get started!<\/p>\n<h2>Who am I trying to influence with my clothing choices?<\/h2>\n<p>I&#8217;m trying to impress and fit-in with my boss (manager types), my project manager (Senior Engineer), my co-workers (younger, male engineers), the support staff (older female secretaries etc.), and myself. \u00a0I&#8217;ve also always got my mother in my head to satisfy and my husband who I always want to look good for.<\/p>\n<h2>What response do I want from each of those groups?<\/h2>\n<h3>Manager Types<\/h3>\n<p>Project: up-and-commer, professional, a leader, bright-eyed and ready to learn, a people person with charisma.<\/p>\n<p>Not: little girl, a daughter-type, or a sister-type, aweek leader or technically incompetent.<\/p>\n<h3>Senior Engineers<\/h3>\n<p>project: technically capable, an engineer, a good student, quick and eager to learn, likable<\/p>\n<p>Not: a glorified secretary, support staff, or a technician.<\/p>\n<h3>Younger Engineer<\/h3>\n<p>Project: one of the guys, a friend to invite out to lunch, someone to joke with and goof off with, sisterly(no funny business) but respected, young and hip<\/p>\n<p>Not: support staff or awkward.<\/p>\n<h3>Support Staff<\/h3>\n<p>project: smart, efficient, in-charge, friendly and likable, easy to get along with and reasonable.<\/p>\n<h3>Mother<\/h3>\n<p>project: professional, successful, older, polite, respectful.<\/p>\n<h3>Husband<\/h3>\n<p>project: Friendly, confident, happy, professional.<\/p>\n<h2>What should I avoid to keep from getting a negative response from these groups?<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px; font-weight: 400; line-height: 1.5;\">sloppy attire: athletic wear, stains, rips, worn-out clothes, gross nails, unkempt hair, ill-fitted clothes<\/span><\/p>\n<p>overly young attire: logo t-shirts, faded jeans, soccer-ponytails, headbands, no makeup,<\/p>\n<p>overly dressy attire: suits, dark pants,<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 16px; font-weight: 400; line-height: 1.5;\">revealing attire: Tight pants, low shirts, tight dresses, short shirts, short dresses, too much makeup<\/span><\/p>\n<p>unfashionable attire: out of style, not fashion-forward and hip clothing, ill-fitting clothes<\/p>\n<p>uncomfortable or awkward clothes: heels I can&#8217;t walk fast enough in, shoes that make my feet bleed, clothes without enough warm layers, hair in my face (too short to pull back to work)<\/p>\n<p>What would satisfy each of these groups?<\/p>\n<p>Well-kept nails and hair done to keep it out of my face: braid, bun, low ponytail<\/p>\n<p>Chinos, button-down with sweater, fashionable jewelry, comfortable shoes with a reasonable heel<\/p>\n<p>dresses with matching cardigan, jewelry, leggings and boots<\/p>\n<p>chinos with blazer and blouse, comfy shoes<\/p>\n<p>So for my new wardrobe. I need to find a source of not-too-tight chinos, sensible brown and black shoes, and some funky jewelry to go with my already heavy collection of sweaters and dresses. \u00a0I have several blazers but I could use more blouses to wear under them.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d like to try on these broken-in strait and perfect fit kakhis from Gap<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.gap.com\/browse\/product.do?cid=1007305&amp;vid=1&amp;pid=941707012\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/www3.assets-gap.com\/webcontent\/0007\/578\/686\/cn7578686.jpg\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.gap.com\/browse\/product.do?cid=1007308&amp;vid=1&amp;pid=857940002\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/www3.assets-gap.com\/webcontent\/0005\/147\/604\/cn5147604.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I used to get these awesome kakhis from Lands End Canvas but they don&#8217;t sell anything work-friendly anymore. I do want to try these Lands End ones that come in a variety of colors. They may be a great substitute for the Canvas ones I have and love.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.landsend.com\/products\/womens-true-slim-chino-pants\/id_263600\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/s7.landsend.com\/is\/image\/LandsEnd\/442692_AG14_FF_O29?fmt=jpeg,rgb&amp;qlt=80,1&amp;op_sharpen=0&amp;resMode=sharp2&amp;op_usm=0.5,1,3,0&amp;icc=sRGB%20IEC61966-2.1,relative&amp;iccEmbed=1&amp;rgn=0,0,2000,3000&amp;scl=4.47427293064877&amp;id=owtuc2\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I just bought a great pair of brown loafers from Payless. They came in wide width and are remarkably comfortable. I&#8217;m hoping to find something similar in black but ideally they&#8217;d be a style that could be worn with a skirt that isn&#8217;t too high or too strappy. I&#8217;d rather not wear pumps since I have a hard time keeping them on but something with a strap, more mary-jane style would work. I&#8217;m sure I&#8217;ll find something that should work.<\/p>\n<p>As far as tops, I&#8217;m a big fan of the idea of getting some nice t-shirts and embellishing them with lace and other trimmings. Some sequins and beading would be super fun and I would love working on stuff like that.<\/p>\n<p>For now, I&#8217;ve got a plan to head to the mall to try on some new pants and I&#8217;m planning on heading to the outlets soon to look for blouses. In the mean time, it&#8217;s time to go through my closet, try everything on, and see what all I have that will help me look awesome at my new job.<\/p>\n<p>Sarah<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have recently accepted a job at MIT Lincoln Laboratory in Lexington MA. \u00a0I am going to be a System Integration and Test Engineer in a large department that consists mainly of men, mainly of contractors rather than direct hires, and mainly of senior engineers. 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